Requirements to Become a Surrogate

Surrogacy is an extraordinarily fulfilling and exciting role. It is also a considerable commitment which requires several involved steps for anyone becoming a surrogate in the United States.

“I found Extraordinary Conceptions and immediately felt supported and confident about starting this journey. I had the honor of meeting such loving people”
- Surrogate Miriam Alejandra

“My surrogacy journey with Extraordinary Conceptions was beyond what I ever could have expected or imagined. It honestly felt like being a part of a team, we all worked together to help the IPs dream of being parents become a reality.”

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“I would 100% work with Extraordinary Conceptions again and look forward to another journey down the road!”

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“I want to be able to bless another family with a child of their own like my family has been blessed with our children. I think the greatest gift is that of a child.”
- Surrogate Sammy - 3 time surrogate with Extraordinary Conceptions Sammantha

“I wanted to help a family have a child of their own!”

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“Becoming a surrogate with Extraordinary Conceptions was the most rewarding experience of my life. Their team supported me every step of the way and made me feel valued and cared for.”

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Surrogates Requirements in the USA

At Extraordinary Conceptions, your health, safety, and well-being always come first. That’s why we follow a few important guidelines for surrogates in the U.S., to make sure you, the Intended Parents, and the baby are protected every step of the way.

Health & Pregnancy History

Because your health and pregnancy history are so important, we want to make sure every surrogate begins her journey from a safe and supported place.

Lifestyle & Stability

We also look at your lifestyle and home environment, so you’ll feel stable and supported throughout your journey

Legal & Residency

Because surrogacy laws vary across the U.S., certain legal guidelines need to be met.

Mental Health & Medications

Emotional well-being matters just as much as physical health when becoming a surrogate.

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Why Become a Surrogate in the U.S.?

The United States is of the sagest and most supportive places to become a surrogate. With strong legal protections, generous compensation, and access to world-class fertility care, surrogates here can begin their journey with confident and peace of mind.

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Meaningful & Lasting Impact

A life-changing journey that brings fulfillment and often lifelong friendships with Intended Parents.

Cost effective

Generous Compensation

U.S. surrogates may earn up to $100,000, with exact amounts varying by location, pregnancy type, and experience. Repeat surrogates often earn more.

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Extra Benefits

Enjoy a signing bonus following legal clearance, thoughtful pregnancy gifts, and a benefits package valued up to $8,000 during your journey.

Community

Dedicated Support

From your own Surrogacy & Care coordinator to peer connections, you’ll always have guidance and support at every stage.

Protection

Life Insurance

Receive a substantial life insurance policy that provides extra peace of mind for you and your loved ones.

Medical Care

Excellent Medical Care

Benefit from access to leading U.S. fertility clinics and specialists, ensuring safe and trusted medical care throughout your surrogacy journey.

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FAQs

Yes. Surrogates typically receive a portion of the compensation that is distributed pre pregnancy when certain milestones are reached, the rest distributed monthly once pregnancy is achieved. Payments are clearly outlined in your legal contract, so you’ll always know what to expect and when.

Compensation depends on several factors, including where you live, whether it’s your first or a repeat journey, the type of pregnancy (singleton or multiples), and the program that you are qualified for. In some states like California, compensation is often higher due to local demand and progressive laws.

Absolutely. Many women choose to have more than one surrogacy journey. In fact, repeat surrogates often receive a higher compensation package because of their previous experience. Most clinics recommend waiting at least 6 months after a vaginal delivery and 12-18 months after a c-section delivery before beginning another surrogacy journey. This gives your body time to heal and ensures you’re ready physically and emotionally for another safe, supported experience.

Women who are healthy, have had at least one successful pregnancy of their own, and meet basic medical and lifestyle requirements can apply. Our team will guide you through the screening process to confirm eligibility.

Every journey is unique, but most surrogacy processes take between 12 and 18 months from application to delivery. Factors like medical clearance, matching, and the embryo transfer timeline can affect the length.

From the moment you apply, you’ll have a dedicated coordinator, access to trusted medical and legal guidance, professional psychological support and emotional care along the way. We also connect you with a community of other surrogates, so you’re supported by women who truly understand this experience.

All medical, legal, and related costs are fully covered by the intended parents. This includes your attorney fees, medical screening, fertility treatments, maternity care, and insurance coverage.

Yes! Matching is always mutual. We’ll present you with intended parent profiles, and you’ll have the opportunity to choose who feels right for you. The intended parents must also feel the same, so it’s a true partnership from the start.

If that happens, your clinic will work with you on preparing for another transfer, with all costs covered by the intended parents. Your legal contract will also outline how many transfer attempts are included.

In the US, surrogacy is usually commercial, which means surrogates receive compensation for their time and commitment. In some other countries, surrogacy is altruistic, meaning surrogates are only reimbursed for expenses. Both arrangements honor surrogates, but in the US, compensation is an important part of the process.